The fact is, they don't want us married.
They want us to be single and all about ourselves with our families broken.
They want each individual slaving away at their work, serving themselves and feeding their system and pockets with the taxes of your labor.
They want you legitimately bitter and unhappy and unfulfilled.
And most of all they want you broken and alone.
I run across posts all day of broken families, broken homes, and women who feel they are "Goddesses" (Facebook group, Leveling Up & Becoming A High Value Goddess) and should have a man that caters to them giving them everything they want in every single moment of time or they need to drop them and level up...
I hear women who live in a more traditional way as a stay at home mom complain about having to do the traditional jobs of a stay at home mom while their husband serves their family by working all day, only to come home and do housework because his wife was to bitter and self serving to be grateful and serve him.
I hear men who want a more traditional woman, but they don't want to man up and take on the role as a traditional man, courting a woman in a traditional way and working like a traditional man.
I hear women wanting more connection with their husband but spend their time being unforgiving, bitter and creating a story in their mind that feeds their ungrateful hearts and self-serving minds- creating detachment.
I hear many wanting a more traditional world, but spend their time creating the new world order by refusing God, failing to speak up against non-traditional ways, failing to pull their children out of indoctrination camps (public schools), filtering their own content, choosing to be unconscious and unaware, and refusing to repent, forgive and begin a new path.
The truth is tradition is important! Marriage is important. Traditional families are so very important. They build a foundation that is unmatched and unwavering for yourself, for your children and for the world.
The truth is your life is not going to be the fantasy that is portrayed on television (tells lies to your vision) or any other "filtered" technology.
And this tech world that has morphed from a tool to a place of deceit and envy, only plans on getting worse.
"A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones." 2. Mark 7:21-22; “For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed the evil thoughts, fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries, deeds of coveting and wickedness, as well as deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride and foolishness." Proverbs 14:30
We have been far removed from the real realities of this God given world and have shifted into the Devils play place where you are connected to a device that constantly feeds you lies while you continue to slave away for their system. And worst off... most of everyone has bought the lie and is following along.
The sad thing is...
Many will read this or come to this realization and continue to fall away from the truth and from God, because choosing to change and take action is uncomfortable and one of the hardest things for people to do.
Witnessing the truth and accepting it is a hard thing to do.
Admitting you were wrong is a hard thing to do.
Changing your ways is a hard thing to do.
Being conscious and making conscious decisions daily is a hard thing to do.
Taking real action is a hard thing to do.
Being selfless is a hard thing to do.
It's hard to become free, I get it. It takes extreme ownership, responsibility and selflessness.
It takes taking everything we've been taught over the years, trashing it and beginning again.
It takes courage.
It takes God.
I wanted to write this post because I had a dream while I was sleeping.
In my dream, I was going to marry Zach. Everything was going to be perfect, he was surprising me (though I already kind of knew), his sister was helping me get ready, my dress was handcrafted, it was beautiful and spontaneous. As I walked down the stairs to be "surprised" Zach leaned in and right before he kissed me I was overcome with love looking at his eyes. I was ready to say I do (though in the dream I was convincing myself I was). Zach then said that he hadn't heard from his best friend yet (like at all), and that he was going to have someone stand up front and tell jokes to buy some more time- his sister looked in shock, and I could feel the weight in my heart. Zach went and sat in a car. I told his sister, "go tell him its not about his friend, it's about us". She did, and when I walked over, she turned to me and said, "it's off, we are not going to live in Television."
I awoke immediately and wondered what that meant. God spoke to me; "It's not always going to be perfect. It's not going to be like television. Commit."
Further notes concluded, "Marriage is so necessary. It's not always going to be perfect. It's not going to be like teLIEvision. Remember all the time, growth and commitment. Remember the love. Remember the effort. It's not about anyone else. It's about you and him. Commit.
Then I wrote this post.
It's not only a message to you. It's for me too. At times I have been brainwashed into thinking like society. If I spend to much time on social media I can find my thoughts corrupted by the devil himself.
The good thing is, I have become aware and I have already implemented many changes.
Life isn't about you. It's about God and serving others. It's about unconditional love. It's about your family.
It can be a hard thing to admit. Pride does that to you. But it's a necessary journey to come back to who you were made to be - with God and Free.
Proverbs 11:2 “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”
Proverbs 16:5 “The LORD detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished.”
Proverbs 16:18 “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”